Friday 17 June 2005

The morning after Mom died, I took off my watch, rings, bracelets and earrings. They will remain off until 40 days have passed.

Some may wonder, why 40 days? I am not sure that was the length of time the water ritual from the Greek Orthodox church is followed, but it's the number I chose because it reminds me of the biblical story of the flood when, as I see it, God wept for 40 days.

Thursday 16 June 2005

Some people shave their heads to mark the passing of someone they love. I borrowed a Greek Orthodox Church ritual, and put a fresh glass of water on the windowsill each day. I imagine Mom's spirit comes for a drink for 40 days. It is strangely helpful to think of her each day in this small way.