~ grapes destined for ice wine ~

Sunday, Nov. 28, 2004
3:30 p.m.

Cameron,

If you're bringing gifts at Xmas, they have to be unwrapped when you go through security at the airport. Not sure if I mentioned that or not.

Mom and Dad get the results of her most recent round of tests, tomorrow we hope, and Dad is expecting bad news because Mom has had so much discomfort in the abdominal area lately. We hope it's only because of constipation caused by the pain drugs, but it could be that the cancer has spread to the pelvic bone or liver. In that case, they'll probably take Mom off the experimental drug, and if they do, it's going to be a real kick in the teeth. Mom and Dad would have a very rough couple of days while Mom decides whether to try another kind of treatment or not to bother. They are known to make you really sick, and she's not sure it's worth it.

Dad will probably be calling to let you know what the tests show. If he doesn't, you can call me, see if I know anything. They have both been depressed lately, and it's good when you call, they always like to hear from you. Dad is having a hard time coping with his emotions, but he is taking care of Mom like a hero. I am really proud of him.

They have asked to be left to themselves tomorrow with whatever news they receive, and they'll let us know as soon as they're able to phone. Cross your fingers.

We are all looking forward to seeing you at Christmas.

Love,
Kathy